Question 1

What is FriendSift?

Accepted Answer

A photo-free platform for finding genuine friendship. We connect people based on shared values, lifestyle and outlook, rather than appearances.

Question 2

Why are there no profile pictures?

Accepted Answer

Because real connection is built on how you think, not how you look. FriendSift does not use profile photos at any stage, even after a Handshake. There is no account catalogue or photo feed. FriendSift offers up to three curated Nuggets, keeps profiles anonymous until there is a mutual Handshake, and only reveals name and email address when both people agree.

Question 3

Does FriendSift have chat or messaging?

Accepted Answer

No. FriendSift does not host chat, DMs or inbox conversations. Once both people complete a mutual Handshake, each person receives the other's name and email address so they can continue off-site via email and take it from there.

Question 4

Who writes my profile bio?

Accepted Answer

Our system does. Once you complete the questionnaire, our algorithm analyses your responses and writes a clear, accurate profile summary that captures your lifestyle, perspective and overall essence.

Question 5

How much does FriendSift cost?

Accepted Answer

FriendSift has no monthly subscription fee. You only pay for successful introductions - a one-off commitment fee for each mutual Handshake.

Question 6

When am I charged?

Accepted Answer

When you send a Handshake request, Stripe places a temporary card hold. If the other person accepts and pays within 48 hours, that hold is captured and both names and email addresses unlock. If they decline or do not respond, the hold is released.

Question 7

Can I get a refund if the friendship doesn't work out?

Accepted Answer

No. The commitment fee is for the successful introduction and exchange of names and email addresses. Because this service is completed the moment a Handshake is accepted, we cannot offer refunds based on whether you click offline.

Question 8

How are introductions chosen?

Accepted Answer

We introduce you to people who share your core values, lifestyle and personal outlook.

Question 9

Why don't I have an introduction yet?

Accepted Answer

Our platform is still young and growing. As more people join, the pool of potential introductions deepens and our system works harder to find you the right person. Please bear with us - we will email you as soon as we have an introduction for you.

Question 10

Is my personal data safe?

Accepted Answer

Yes. We ask specific profile questions because they are essential for real compatibility. Your data is processed securely on UK/EU-compliant servers, used solely for facilitating introductions and is never sold to third parties or advertisers.

Question 11

Does FriendSift run background checks?

Accepted Answer

No. FriendSift does not conduct criminal background checks or identity verifications. You are responsible for your safety when meeting offline. Start with email, use your judgement and always meet in a public space for the first time.

Help & Support

How FriendSift Works

Pricing & The Handshake

Connections

Privacy & Safety

Suggestions or Report a Bug